Messaging & Connections

Messaging is at the heart of your experience on PositiveSingles App. This guide explains how connections, private messages, chat controls, and communication features work in a safe and private environment.


1. Connections (Winks)


What is a Connection Request?

  • A simple way to express interest in another member
  • Helps start a conversation without pressure
  • Appears in the recipient’s chat area
  • The recipient can choose to respond or ignore

Usage Limits

  • Standard Members: Limited daily connection requests
  • Premium Members: Unlimited connection requests
You can always level up your membership to unlock unlimited communication features.

2. Messaging & Conversations


Private Messages

  • Start private conversations with other members
  • Control who can message you
  • Manage your communication preferences anytime

Unsend Messages

  • Hover or tap on a message
  • Select the options menu (…) and choose Unsend
  • Messages can only be removed within a limited time window
When a message is removed, the system may notify the other member for transparency.

3. Chat Privacy Controls


Hide Conversations

  • Open a chat
  • Select the menu (…)
  • Choose Hide Conversation

Unhide Conversations

  • Go to Settings → Privacy
  • Open Hidden Conversations
  • Select Unhide
Hidden conversations are not deleted. They remain stored securely and can be restored anytime.

4. Pin Important Conversations


Pinning allows you to keep important conversations at the top of your chat list for easy access.

  • Premium feature
  • Pin or unpin conversations anytime
  • Keep meaningful connections easily accessible

5. Video Calls


How to Start a Video Call

  • Open a conversation
  • Tap the video icon
  • Wait for the other member to accept

From Profile Page

  • Visit a member’s profile
  • Select Start Video Call
  • Allow camera and microphone permissions
We recommend getting comfortable through messaging first before starting a video call.

6. Chat History


  • Go to the Chats tab
  • Select a conversation
  • Scroll to view full chat history

7. Auto-Reply (Offline Mode)


Manage Auto-Reply

  • Go to Settings → Messaging
  • Enable or disable Auto-Reply
  • Customize your offline message
Auto-Reply helps maintain communication when you are offline. You can turn it off anytime.

Safety & Respect

PositiveSingles App is built around privacy, respect, and safety. Please avoid sharing sensitive personal or financial information in messages.

If you experience unwanted behavior, you can block or report a member directly from the conversation.

For additional support, contact us at support@positivesingles.app.